Ep 9: What New Coaches Really Need to Learn (and What to Stop Overthinking)

In this episode of The Coaching Mixer, Erin and Elena pour a drink and dig into a question they get all the time: what skills should new coaches actually focus on? Their answers evolve in real time—from self-coaching and marketing to the art of being present and the necessity of learning how to recover when your attention slips.

In This Episode:

  • What real self-coaching looks like (and what it isn’t)
  • How to stay with your client instead of getting lost in your own head
  • Why curiosity is a reliable way back when you drift in a session
  • The role of “rupture and repair” in coaching and relationships
  • Why having perfect presence isn't possible—and how to work with that reality
  • How sharing your own learning process can double as authentic marketing

Resources Mentioned:

  • Bonnie Badenoch’s Therapy as a Spiritual Practice
  • Erin’s book Superabound (available wherever you buy books online)
  • Elena’s coaching at coachingwithelena.com

Connect with the Hosts:

  • Erin Aquin: Instagram @besuperabound | besuperabound.com
  • Elena McCernan: Instagram @elenamccernan | coachingwithelena.com

Next Up: Erin and Elena plan to explore “rupture and repair” in more depth—how moments of disconnection can become turning points in your work with clients.